Each year millions marriages end in divorce.This is an incredible number !
The question is how many of those marriages could be saved. Unfortunately, that is an invisible number.
Can your marriage be saved ?
if your marriage is in trouble and you do nothing, the outcome is guaranteed. If you do something, there is a much better chance that your marriage will be saved.
And I can tell you, in four simple steps what you can do to save your marriage.
Here are the 4 steps:
1) Quit the blame game.
Stop blaming your spouse and stop blaming yourself.
Blame is our way of avoiding seeing ourselves clearly. It is much easier to point the finger somewhere and say “It’s their fault.” But in marriage, you can just as easily turn that pointing finger on yourself and place the blame there, saying “it’s all my fault.”
Blame is the fuel of divorces.
2) Take responsibility.
Decide you can do something. Change always begins with one person who wants to see a change. Understand that taking responsibility is not the same as taking the blame.
Instead, blame is saying “regardless of who is at fault, there are some things I can do differently, and I am going to do them.”
3) Get resources from experts.
If others have been helped, you can be, too. Experts with a great deal more perspective and experience can be a real help in these situations.
Don’t assume that your situation is so different from every other situation.
4) Take action.
More damage is done by doing nothing by taking a misstep.
It is not enough to simply understand what is causing the problem. You must then act !
Will your marriage be saved ? If you follow these suggestions, you have infinitely more opportunity for saving your marriage than if you do nothing. Marriage is one of those places where it takes two to make it work, but only one to really mess things up. You can only do your part, but many times, that is enough. Resolve not to ask the question but to begin to act.
Are you ready to take action ?
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